There are many reasons for relationships to be unsuccessful. Sometimes neither partner has the time to really invest in making it work. Other times, there are personal issues on the part of one partner. Either way, both people suffer in the end. When a relationship goes bad, people’s feelings are hurt. It doesn’t matter if one person meant to hurt the other’s feelings or not. A relationship break up is always difficult.
It is often easier for a person with issues to realize they have a problem forming a good relationship. Once they recognize their issues, they can deal with them by making changes in the way they look at life. These changes will eventually lead them to find people that are truly compatible. It may take time, but eventually they should be able to find someone and maintain a good relationship. It is well worth the effort if a person wants to have a successful relationship with another.